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Hi, I'm Allison Ivey Smith, also known as Life Coach Alli.

I understand where you are because I've been there myself. I'm a widow, and there was a time when I woke up every day questioning my identity - who I was, who I had been, and who I was supposed to be now.

Losing my husband didn't just change my life, it shook my sense of self. I felt caught in an in-between space, unsure how to move forward and exhausted from trying to make the "right" choice without knowing what right even meant anymore.

That season is what led me to this work, and ultimately to creating the Be You 'Til Full program. Not as a way to "start over", but as a way to connect with who I truly am and consciously choose what comes next.

Today, I guide other widows and divorcees through that same identity crossroads with compassion, clarity, and a path forward that honors both where they've been and who they're becoming.

The path forward begins with figuring out who you are before jumping to what to do next or how to do it.

Be You 'til Full is a guided, identity-centered program created specifically for widows and divorcees who are ready to move from confusion to clarity, and from feeling stuck to moving forward with purpose.

Instead of pushing you to "figure everything out", we begin by helping you reconnect with yourself so the choices you make next actually fit the woman you are becoming.

Using evidence-based tools from positive psychology, Acceptance & Commitment Therapy, and the VIA Character Strengths framework, we work together to help you:

Rediscover your authentic self

Clarify your core values, signature strengths, and what truly matters to you now

Define a future that feels right

Create a clear, meaningful vision rooted in who you are, not who you think you should be

Map your next steps

Develop practical, realistic actions and support systems that turn insight into movement

Build steady resilience

Strengthen your ability to navigate uncertainty, setbacks, and self-doubt while staying aligned with your values

This isn't therapy (though many women say it feels deeply healing). And it isn't generic life coaching.

It's a structured compassionate process designed to help you move from

"I don't know who I am anymore"

"This is who I'm becoming and I know how to move forward".

Apply for Be You 'til Full

Applying doesn't mean committing. It's simply the first step in seeing if this is right for you.

WHAT PEOPLE SAY

Alette S.

I would highly recommend Allison. She is an outstanding coach. I have worked with her for months and she has helped me greatly in discovering my authentic self, living in authentic joy and using my talents to help me accomplish my dreams. Her warmth and sincerity make it so easy to open up to her. She is non-judgmental, compassionate and...relatable. She simply knows because she has been there."

Bernice W.

Allison was very considerate, and asked good questions that helped me understand some things more clearly. This journey was like a partnership; it was as if we were in this together.

Amberlym H.

Allison is a ray of sunshine. I most appreciated her approach and how well she listened to me. She did an amazing job at listening to my objection and then responding in a way that allowed me to find my own solution.